How did you know you were gay?

Rinoa, you know in my experience dating a friend can be the best thing in the world. I don't think you would ruin your friendship with her. I'd say give it a shot

Nyahhh wrote:Rinoa, you know in my experience dating a friend can be the best thing in the world. I don't think you would ruin your friendship with her. I'd say give it a shot

I want to but I'm not so sure she does, and if it went wrong I wouldn't want to lose her completely. It's difficult. Plus, she's in Scotland and I'm in the south of England which doesn't help.

Well, you could always just talk to her about it. I've never been to Europe so I don't really know what traveling would be like from there, but I figure it could never hurt to talk about your feelings (yes I am that sentimental)

Nyahhh wrote:Well, you could always just talk to her about it. I've never been to Europe so I don't really know what traveling would be like from there, but I figure it could never hurt to talk about your feelings (yes I am that sentimental)

Valid point, maybe I will. She's in the middle of her university exams right now and I don't wanna stress her out, and I'm not in the right mental state to really be entering a new relationship (clinical depression.) right this second. It can wait until we're face to face sometime in the summer.

I think that I have just realised that I think I am a week ago, I think my case it's complicated, because I dont like men, but girls, but I want to be a girl.

Im not having an easy time, because I'm on exams and have my head full of university shit and this, I dont know how Im going to say this to anyone: religious parents, my girlfriend, my fiends... what I have to say? im a lesbian man? I think it could be ok, and making them know shouldn't change anything, because I'm still being the same person, but on the other hand I'm hinking about the posibility that this news will spoil my relationship with them...

what do you think? stay like always, with the difference of me being the only knowing what I feel about my sexual identity? or just say it to everyone and see how it goes?

P.S: despite of being the best of my course of languajes it looks like my english its not that good XD