Hi, everyone.
I've dated one boy, and it was for over a year. I was very fond of him, and while I liked him a lot, I never felt any sexual arousal from him. I never really liked kissing him or having sex, and I often found myself thinking of other things during any sexual activity.
I have been single for quite some time, and I think I am developing a crush....on a girl. She is very sweet and kind, and seems like everything I want. I am even attracted to her physically. I can see myself being very happy kissing her, among other things. And I enjoy the idea.
So...where do you draw the line between being bisexual and being a lesbian?
Does my inability to find men sexually attractive make me a lesbian? And if so, then how is it that I can find ways to develop feelings for them, and still not be sexually attracted?
I've never told anyone about my liking of girls, and never ever about my not finding men attractive.
...I'd really like some advice :\ I've never admitted this to myself, until just now.
I've dated one boy, and it was for over a year. I was very fond of him, and while I liked him a lot, I never felt any sexual arousal from him. I never really liked kissing him or having sex, and I often found myself thinking of other things during any sexual activity.
I have been single for quite some time, and I think I am developing a crush....on a girl. She is very sweet and kind, and seems like everything I want. I am even attracted to her physically. I can see myself being very happy kissing her, among other things. And I enjoy the idea.
So...where do you draw the line between being bisexual and being a lesbian?
Does my inability to find men sexually attractive make me a lesbian? And if so, then how is it that I can find ways to develop feelings for them, and still not be sexually attracted?
I've never told anyone about my liking of girls, and never ever about my not finding men attractive.
...I'd really like some advice :\ I've never admitted this to myself, until just now.